Springtime for Kundan and California

I have gone through four or more drafts of my travel update without settling on the right format to describe my journey. However, the title was too good to pass up and if I don’t write soon, I’d lose the chance to use it.

Last week, I spent three days at Harbin Hot Springs ( http://www.harbin.org/intro.htm ) in Napa county two and a half hours from my sister’s house in Chico, two hours north of San Francisco. If you have even the slightest chance of going there, please take it. It’s located up a fully wooded valley and is veeery relaxing. The centre is the main pool area. Six pools: a swimming pool that was a pleasant temperature for doing laps and fooling around. A heart shaped soaking pool. A cold pool. Sauna and steam rooms. Then, a large warm soaking pool about five foot deep. Next to it, the hot pool and above another cold pool. There are large decks for sunbathing and hanging out. The hot pool is 102+F (39C). The sign says to begin with no more than 2 minutes. I tend toward one minute. Then, off to the cold pool for a short dip. A pause for a long drink of my electrolyte enhanced water and back to the hot pool where I found that I was immediately enjoying the deep relaxing heat. I would do this circuit three or four times.

About timing of your visit. I arrived Thursday midday and left Sunday. The difference in population of the pools between friday and saturday was considerable. One way around it: I found myself awake at four thirty in the morning and went down to the pools. Only two other people there. After my rounds, I returned to morph into the most relaxing puddle of Kundan in my bed.

Other attractions are a number of varying degrees of difficulty hikes around the large property. Fabulous views. Many quiet spots. The restaurant is informal with a deck looking out on the wooded valley. I shared a table with some very interesting people.

There are events happening most nights and, of course, yoga, massage and other bodywork. I chose to have a Watsu session. This was a new experience for me. Watsu is described as “water shiatsu”, though, I would say that that is much more than that. The session happens in a shallow, maybe four foot deep warm salt water pool. I had a crick in my neck and a tight lower back, so, Patti, my practitioner, said that she would give me a gentle session. She put velcroed straps just below my knees to add floatation, then, I just lay back in her arms and let go. There was gentle massaging of my neck and lower back but mostly it was gentle movement of my body through the water stretching it in various ways. I felt totally supported. About three quarters of the way through the hour, my head lolled against her cheek and I suddenly felt like I was a babe in my mothers arms. My heart melted. Wow, wowww, wowwww.

And, it even released my neck and back.

On top of all that Harbin has to offer everyone, I also met up with a couple old friends. Sheelu was visiting and the Ramadeva lives there. Ramadeva teaches Feldenkrais classes twice a week and does other work. I first met him when he was the lead facilitator of the first Mystic Rose that I participated in. That day, he was walking the hiking trails looking for people who needed assistance. Nice work, especially on a cool spring day. Oh, and, did I mention how relaxed I was at the end of only three days. Truly and oasis.

So, that was the most recent treat of my journey in Californialand. Mostly this has been a time of enjoying being with my sister, brother and sister-in-law, as well as my nephews and nieces. I managed to bump into some friends along the way and make new friends as well. My sister Mary, in between quilting and playing bridge, has been attending a class about Rumi’s poems. I went along to a couple class meetings as well as a couple informal gatherings. The leader is a beautiful woman who is passionately absorbed in the poetry of Rumi and other Sufis. A great way to touch one’s heart. While in SLO town, I got to sit and chat with my brother John in the morning before he went off to work and spend time in the afternoons at the breakfast counter talking with my sister-in-law, Stephanie when she got home from work. It’s such a pleasure to just be together with each of them. John and Steph, had just bought a vacation home at Lake Shasta on the California/Oregon border. We loaded up a trailer and made a stop at Ikea on the way. Then, it was moving in and cleaning up (I am now an expert Ikea assembler). Next weekend, I go up to the Lake House again for Memorial day weekend and, then, head south to SLO again for the month of July.

In all, it’s just been a very cruizy time. Oh, yeh, there was the spring garden tour. I’ll be uploading some photos to my flickr pages.

Cheers

An Interesting Twist in Cyberspace

Hi All:
Well, the blogosphere is abuzz with analysis of the quote attributed to Martin Luther King that I sent to you. Apparently, it should have read thus:

I will mourn the loss of thousands of precious lives, but I will not rejoice in the death of one, not even an enemy. “Returning hate for hate multiplies hate, adding deeper darkness to a night already devoid of stars. Darkness cannot drive out darkness: only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate, only love can do that.” – Martin Luther King Jr.

The difference is the placement of the quotes. The story goes that except for the first sentence, it was a quote from a speech by MLK. The original author of the posting, wrote as you see above. It went viral. Then, someone tweeted it and to save space, because of tweeting limitations, removed the quotes. It makes one smile at how these things happen.

However, I still consider the whole to express an important message. I also would bet that old Martin Luther King would have agreed with the additional opening sentence.

Here is my explanation why I felt it was important to pass on the above. There is no mention of whether Osama Bin Ladin or any other man should be killed or not. This is not really about that question. What it is about is our reaction to such an event. I can understand why those people were dancing in the streets, however, I feel that there is a much better way to respond to this event.

We may feel relief that a danger has passed or been reduced. However, if one believes that a person has committed an act that people believe requires his killing, my own perspective is that we should be saddened that the world is in such a state that such an action is necessary. Rather than rejoicing, we need to look for the source of this malignancy and take responsibility for those parts that are our doing. There may be things that we can not change but there are many ways that we can make this a much more humane and just world. And, they come through the heart.

Love, Kundan

Consider this, then, read it again.

“I will mourn the loss of thousands of precious lives, but I will not rejoice in the death of one, not even an enemy. Returning hate for hate multiplies hate, adding deeper darkness to a night already devoid of stars. Darkness cannot drive out darkness: only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate, only love can do that.” – Martin Luther King Jr.

A Conscious Consumer

Dear Friends:
Below is an email that was forwarded to me. It is aimed at people in the USA and most of those that I am writing to are living outside the US. I am sending this on because it is important to me to be a conscious consumer and this is a simple example of a difference a little bit of conscious consuming can make.

I have to say that I am not against international trade. It is a healthy human interaction. I am for supporting local economies when possible. So often, we only look at the price of a product without considering the cost of the product. In the example below, they mention how there would be an increase of 200,000 jobs in the US if people bought USA made. There would also be other consequences, such as, a decrease in the amount of oil used to ship and distribute said goods.
Though supporting local is, I feel, very important, there is more to conscious consuming. When I shop for a product that I am not familiar with, I read the ingredients as well as where is was produced. I compare. The first time may take a few extra minutes, however, I only need to do it once and I know what I am getting.

There is another level that I find even more important. Is consumption our prime reason in life?

There is an exaggerated importance that consuming has in our lives. The obvious example is the role that credit buying was involved in the current economic upheaval. There is also the glaring “must have the latest version” that pushes so many people into wasteful spending. I came to California with the intention of buying the latest iPad 2. It’s a very impressive device. I could afford it. Yet, do I really need it? There is a big debate going on in my mind. I have a very capable Macbook that, though it is heavier and bigger, can do more than I need. I already have an iPod touch as a portable device that still amazes me. Yes, I do travel often, however, it is usually in a way that the extra size and weight of my Macbook is not a hindrance.

There is a need to bring our awareness to ourselves and our own inner dialogue and resulting actions. I have watched this dialogue within myself and been a bit shocked and red faced. “Shopping therapy” is more than a cute comment. It is very much built into our minds. The belief that buying something will somehow make us feel better is so deeply ingrained that we don’t notice it.

When was the last time that you were downtown and didn’t buy anything? How often have you said, “Wow, that’s beautiful but I don’t really need it” and walked away?

Following is the email that I forwarded to my “bloggies” list:

MAY 1 – JUNE 1

Did you see that Diane Sawyer has a special report coming up this week? They removed ALL items from a typical, middle class family’s home that were not made in the USA.  There was hardly anything left.  Literally. During the special they are going to show truckloads of items – USA made – being brought in to replace everything and will be talking about how to find these items and the difference in price etc..

It was interesting that Diane said that if every American spent just $64 more than normal on USA made items this year, it would create something like 200,000 new jobs!

For instance, at Walmart you can buy the “Our Family” Brand of madarin oranges from China or for a few more cents you can buy the Liberty Gold or Dole brand from California.

Why are Americans buying without thinking while the Chinese, knowingly and intentionally, export inferior and even toxic products and dangerous toys and goods to be sold in American markets?

70% of Americans believe that the trading privileges afforded to the Chinese should be suspended.

Why do you need the government to suspend trading privileges? DO IT YOURSELF, AMERICA!!

Simply look on the bottom of every product you buy, and if it says ‘Made in China’ or ‘PRC’ (and that now includes Hong Kong), simply choose another product, or none at all.  You will be amazed at how dependent you are on Chinese products, and you will be equally amazed at what you can do without.

Who needs plastic eggs to celebrate Easter? If you must have eggs, use real ones and benefit some American farmer. Easter is just an example. The point is, do not wait for the government to act. Just go ahead and assume control on your own.

THINK ABOUT THIS: If 200 million Americans refuse to buy just $20 each of Chinese goods, that’s a billion dollar trade imbalance resolved in our favor…fast!!

Most of the people who have been reading about this matter are planning on implementing this on MAY 1st and continue it until JUNE 1st.

Remember, MAY 1 TO JUNE 1st !!!!!!

START NOW.